Miniature Gratitude: The Bliss of BOREDOM

By Moyinoluwa Okunloye

For some time now, I have lived in the busy city of Lagos working, living, thriving and enjoying the city with some of the best people in the world. Now, I love my job (I really do) because it avail me the opportunity to work with the best boss on the planet (she is so amazing) but recently, I started to feel spent. I started to feel like I needed to breathe some fresh air. So, I took a break and travelled to spend time with my family. And it was exactly what I needed.

For the very first time in a long time, I decided not to stick to my plans for the break. With a little push from a friend, I decided to allow myself be bored and oh! I had an overdose of BOREDOM. I enjoyed the bliss of sleeping till late in the morning, reading and editing. I had time to just stare at nothing and just reminisce on how great my life is (trust me, this is not what I would do on a normal day). I had great times just chatting and being with two of my beautiful mums. I got to pick my nephew from school for a whole week which I totally enjoyed doing (That kid is so inspiring). I had great joy just sitting home thinking of what to prepare for dinner for everyone to eat when they get back.


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It was fun rummaging through my sister’s wardrobe and selecting some choicest shoes for myself. She pretends as though she does not like me doing it, but I think she expects it every time I come around (I picked only three pairs this time). I had fun eating from B. J’s plate and just listening to him talk to me and also care for me.

I had great joy just from being bored in the city of Ilorin. It was a city that I am familiar with. I had lived there for a number of years and usually, the pace of growth would make me uncomfortable. But this time, I enjoyed the peace of the city, the love and genuine interest of the people for each other and the opportunity to spend some good time with the people that I absolutely love. I found myself expressing gratitude to God for the bliss of boredom that I enjoyed and for the capacity to choose it. But I am also grateful for the option of another reality; the gift of work. I feel extremely blessed.


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